A Simple Guide for Young People and Parents
Choosing what to study in college or university has become one of the most challenging decisions for young people after high school. Many graduates find themselves confused, unsure which field to pursue, and afraid of making the wrong choice that could affect their entire future.
Some new students, especially in my country, the Democratic Republic of Congo, often contact me to ask, “Which field should I choose?”
As an educator specialized in Educational Planning and Administration, and with experience in OSP (Orientation Scolaire et Professionnelle), I have guided many students through a few key questions that help them discover their path.
Are you also confused about what to study? Here is my simple yet practical guide that can help you or someone you know make the right decision.
1. Love What You Do
You must first love the field you want to study. That love will sustain your passion and motivation when things get tough. Without passion, even the best opportunities will feel empty and exhausting. Remember, when you love what you study, learning becomes a joy, not a burden.
2. Follow Your Competence
Never choose a faculty that does not align with your abilities. For instance, if mathematics is not your strength, a science-based program might make your journey very hard. Similarly, if you are not comfortable speaking in public, avoid programs that rely heavily on verbal communication, like journalism.
Knowing your strengths and weaknesses is not a limitation, it’s wisdom.
3. Consider the Job Market
Before choosing a field, take time to observe the job market. If too many students are already graduating in a particular area, it might become difficult to find employment later. The law of supply and demand applies here too. Be strategic, choose a field that combines your passion and competence but also offers real opportunities.
A Message to Parents
One of the biggest mistakes made by many parents is forcing their children to study what they (the parents) have already planned, even before the child begins their educational journey.
This attitude often produces frustrated adults, people who fail not because they are incapable, but because they followed someone else’s dream instead of their own.
Parents have a sacred role: to guide, supervise, and instill moral discipline and seriousness in their children. But they must also allow their sons and daughters to choose their own path, the one that fits their abilities, calling, and vision for life.
When children follow their passion with proper parental guidance, they not only succeed but also find fulfillment.
Final Thought
Choosing the right field of study is not about pleasing others, it’s about discovering yourself.
Take time to know your passion, your competence, and the reality of the world around you. That is how you build a meaningful and successful academic journey.
